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Hello everyone, I'm excited to have with me today Jennifer Androi.
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Jennifer's really an exceptional individual. She has done TED talks,
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she has written books. She's an expert in mergers and acquisitions,
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and one of the reasons why I really wanted her
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on the show is to talk about the human side
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of mergers and acquisitions because a lot changes for people.
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So with that, let me introduce Jennifer. Thank you so
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much for joining me.
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Thank you for inviting me. Linda.
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We had such a good time in DC, didn't we
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We did?
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We did? I covered your shoes.
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Yeah, well yeah, they were kind of cute. I've had
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them for years. Actually, oh are they kind of that pink?
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You know?
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So tell me what got you into the M and
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A work. It's tough work, it is, I know.
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If you I've been asked, what's a nice girl like
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you doing in mergers question, I would say, yes, the bigger,
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the billions, the bigger the blood bath, right, phrase that
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I've heard someone else say. I was a corporate marketing
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chief marketing officer and I went through three multi billion
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dollar merger and acquisition deals. And I've been on all
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sides of the deal table. I've been aired, I've been
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part of the team brought in post acquisition, and I've
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been acquired by private equity, which sure you know is
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its own unique experience. So it was really through those
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three experiences that I decided to write a book. I'd
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have to confess my colleagues in the second acquisition, in particular,
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because I had been acquired and now I was leading
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a team that had been acquired, and my colleagues just
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kept saying, man, you really should write a book like
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you seem to know how to get how to get
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people inspired and moving forward. And because I just kept saying, well,
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I've been them. I know what it's like when you're
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acquired and it's a journey and you need the right
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kind of leadership and guide to help you on it.
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That's really what got me into it.
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And that that's a good space because usually when people
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are you know, I used to work for ge Capital,
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and that was that was our life's blood, was buying
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other other businesses. And we always said, oh, this is
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a merger of equals, and it's never true now, as
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you know, and there's winners and losers, and you know,
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dealing with the human side is essential. So so what
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were some of the lessons that you learned about people
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and how you had to deal with people.
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And in all of that, well, I think you know
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what's interesting, and we'll just start with what you what
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you said about your time at ge Capital. The intentions
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are always good, right you say you're a merger of
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equals because you want people to feel okay and you
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want them to uh, you know, not think this is
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the worst thing ever. But one of the things that
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I have found, and it's what I coach my clients on,
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is being transparent and and and recognizing that this is
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a journey for people. I think Linda, you and I
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even talked about this a little bit. When your whole
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identity has been wrapped up in your company and now
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it's merging with or being acquired by or even frankly,
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when you acquire, there is a change in your future
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and you don't know what's going to be. So you
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suffer what's known as ambiguous loss because we all we
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all imagine a pretty kick ass future for ourselves when
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we're up and comers and contributing, and so when that
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future comes into question, you suffer ambiguous loss because you
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don't know what that future will be. And it's why
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the work that I do is really focused on the leadership,
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how to help people navigate this, how to help humans
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navigate this, and how to actually help yourself. Yeah, gated
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as well.
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You know, it strikes me as you say that ambiguous
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loss that almost deals with every part of somebody's life.
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And know they're losing a job, often an emerger, or
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at least a job where they were personally identified with.
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You know, you're getting divorced, you're you know, moving your area.
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How do you help people, you know, deal with that
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ambiguous loss? How do you help them move forward? Because
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a lot of people that's very hard.
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So and I it was divine inspiration. I really have
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to say, as if I were to have this idea
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come to me again, I don't know if it would.
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But when I was writing my book back in twenty eighteen,
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twenty nineteen, I thought, exactly as you did, what have
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I felt these feelings of anger and depression and bargaining?
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And I thought, you know it was a it was
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a bad breakup, you right, right right? And so I thought,
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will help me get through that music? You know, Little
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led Zeppelin, AC DC, Frank Sinatra and Anita Baker and.
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So at nice playlist.
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What if I use that same tool? Right? You had
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mixtapes back then, and so I had mixed tape to
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help me get through the moments. And so in my book,
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I have music, a playlist, a Spotify playlist called From
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Denial to Acceptance to help wow through each of the stages.
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And one of the more profound experiences that I've had
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which shocked me, Linda, I was not expected. I thought, Oh,
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I don't know how this is going to go over.
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But I have people make a playlist in real time.
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So when I'm working with a company that's just been
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acquired or even frankly is the acquirer. I have them
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make a playlist. They pick three songs, a song that
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best describes how they felt when they first heard the news,
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a song that best describes how they feel right now,
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and a song that best describes how they want to
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feel ninety days from now. And it's really it's amazing
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for a number of reasons. One because people realize they're
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not alone in the feelings that they're that they're going through.
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And they also everyone picks a different song, right, so
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it helps you as a leader to understand every one
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is going through this in a different way. You know.
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So I've heard everything from take this job and shove
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it to it that might be mine, or you know,
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can't stop believing you know a lot of journeys Fleetwood
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mag and so it's it's a it's a wonderful moment
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for people in a company to realize, ah, okay, I'm
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not going crazy, these are legitimate feelings and we can
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get through this together. And so for me, that's been
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one of more one of the more powerful things that
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I unintentionally did and has made you know, has made
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my keynotes in particular well known in M and A
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circles because of that exercise.
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Yeah, that's a great exercise. I really love it. I
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could see where you could use that in a lot
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of places, you know. So so tell me how did
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you reinvent yourself?
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Oh god, it's I'm still in progres. It's a work
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in progress. Yeah, particularly because, as my dad jokes, when
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I was eight, I had planned to be ambassador to France.
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So, wow, do you speak French? I do?
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My father's French.
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Oh so cool.
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At this point he just thinks I'm on a very
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circuitous path to ambassadorship. But I yeah, we spoke French
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at home. I went to Thunderbird International Business School all
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with the Ambassador to France, and thank god, I had
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a really kind professor who asked me one day, so
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what do you plan to do when you graduate from Thunderbird?
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And I said, oh, I'm going to be ambassador France.
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And he, after you stopped laughing, it was very kind.
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And you just know, Jennifer, and if anyone could do,
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you could, he said, But I'm like a fallback plan,
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and he said, and you're really sharp in marketing. I
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don't know, I would just I would just propose that.
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So my first chapter was actually an advertising fifteen years
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in advertising. The next chapter was marketing, where I went
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through my M and A deals, and then this third chapter,
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mergers and acquisitions. I never imagined I would be doing this,
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never it was I won. I didn't like consultants. I'll
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be the first to say, you know, because I'd been
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on the receiving end of consultants who you just don't
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get it what this feels like to try and help
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your team navigate a very emotional period in a company's
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journey and in your career. So for me, the reinvention,
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I think, really was just taking a leap of faith.
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I had interviewed so many CEOs for my book, and
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they kept saying, what are you doing besides the book?
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And I'm sure, Linda, you probably can appreciate this. I
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kept saying to them, do you know how hard it
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is to write a book? Like I was just prout
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to write a book.
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I'm just lucky I got done.
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Yeah, And so I was at that time, I was
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just planning to be another marketing exec at another company
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when a CEO thankfully just said, you know, he said,
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I love this book. It is what does get talked
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about enough. But it dooms deals. There's not enough attention
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to the people part, he said. But to be honest,
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no one's going to run to Barnes and Nobles to
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buy your book because they're going to be too busy
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trying to hold onto their job or figure out which
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end is up. So you need to you need to
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be the catalyst, and you need to build a business
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around this to help help leaders. You know, C suite
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executives really understand what it takes to lead people through
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this transition. So I would have to say that that
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was a catalyst. I also in the summer twenty seventeen
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thought I had breast cancer. Thankfully I did not good.
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But there's nothing like a medical scare to say what
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am I doing? Like, I can't, I can't straddle. I
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was writing the book while interviewing, and so I like,
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I said, you know enough enough signs just said, Jennifer,
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go for it. Give this a try. You're you're passionate
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about helping people, and you know the CEO is right.
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The book wouldn't do it alone.
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Right, I mean it always feels like a great accomplish
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to get the book done, and you think, oh, well,
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you know that was that was my big career step.
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But it's not were we scared stepping out there.
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Terrified terrified because I I had grown up in corporate
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I had had the privilege of being at blue chip
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ad agencies Jay Walter Thompson and foot Cone and Belding,
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which actually, frankly don't exist anymore because because of mergers
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and acquisitions. Right any of my life and in my
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marketing experience, I really loved marketing, and frankly, I know
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it's what's helped me cut through in the work that
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I do now. But I just it was a calling.
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I know that sounds odd, but I just thought, there's
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a reason I felt inspired to write this book to
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create a Spotify playlist. I have ten caricatures in the book,
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so I bring to life the personas that emerge during
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a merger and acquisition, all these creative ideas. I thought,
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it's a message. I need to do something with this,
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and I'm not sure what the next chapter holds.
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I was going to ask you that what do you
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see as sort of your next.
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I would like to teach in the merger and acquisition space.
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I had actually created an M and a center of excellence.
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I had a plan to move forward with I won't
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go into the details, and so that is what I
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think is truly the next step. I realized, I deal
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with the symptoms of mergers and acquisitions, right, you need
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to go upstream, as Dan Heath said, if you've ever
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read his book Upstream right, So where what causes the problem? Upstream? Right?
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I would say, you know, I'm not going to change
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Wall Street and how companies are are incentivized and rewarded, understandably,
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but I could help companies learn to better prepare their
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leadership through an executive education program right brain people and
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help them understand that change management and culture piece is
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as important as the due diligence and quality of earnings
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and the value creation all combined together. So that's that's
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kind of if I were to have a crystal ball,
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that's what I hope I would see.
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Yeah, you know, I personally think that the people side
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is really the most important side. You know, putting together
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the balance sheets, putting together the processes and all that stuff.
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You have teams that do that. I mean that becomes
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self evident. You know, what do you take out here?
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What do you put in here? But it's the people
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that is the most critical aspect of all of this.