June 30, 2026

Rising Together

Rising Together

We will be speaking with best selling author and coach Sally Helgesen. Sally is the world’s premier expert on women’s leadership. We will discuss practical ways to build more effective relationships we perceive as different from ourselves. This will be an insightful discussion not to be missed.

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Hello everyone, thank you for joining the show today. I'm

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so excited to have Sally Helgeson as my guest.

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And Sally, she's just.

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The world's premiere person on women's leadership. She's an internationally

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known bestseller, she has ted talks, she's been in this

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business for over thirty years, and there isn't anything that

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she does not know about when it comes to women

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and the workplace and leadership. And now her latest book,

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which I absolutely love, Rising Together, how we can bridge

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divides and create more and more inclusive workplace, and I

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think going forward that's going to be very important. So Bet, Sally,

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thank you so much for joining the show.

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It's a pleasure to be here, Linda, thank you good Yeah,

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I love your books behind there.

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Yeah exactly, I know, I know.

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So how did you get into this in the first place.

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I mean, we've known each other for like thirty years,

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haven't we various different capacities, So how did you.

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Get into this in the first place.

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Well, in the late eighties, I was working as a

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speech writer in a number of different corporations, and I

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really enjoyed the work, and I had great I worked

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at great companies, but I was vividly aware of the

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inability in the organizations that I was in to recognize

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women's strengths as leaders as having you know, real ideas

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that would count and could shape an organization. And I

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remember having one experience where I proposed an idea in

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a meeting and it just didn't Nobody resonated with it,

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nobody mentioned it. They just listened and then went on

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with what they were going about.

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And I remember.

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Afterwards feeling like, oh, I shouldn't have said anything. You know,

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I'm the most junior person there, blah blah blah. And

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what was interesting is the idea I proposed, which was

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a partnership with a group that identified and New York

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City public schools who might be hireable at the for

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the company bring them in. It just didn't go anywhere,

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but the next year, the robin Hood Foundations suggested it

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to the company and it became a big deal. Now,

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obviously I didn't have a pull of the robin Hood Foundation,

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but what it did, I mean, I was just you know,

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young women sitting there as a speech writer. But what

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it did was I thought, you know what, I had

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a great idea that was just the kind of idea

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that they should have listened to. And I began noticing

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the extent to which we had really talented women and

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they felt like they were part of the workplace, but

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their ideas, their thoughts there thinking about the future and

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what the company could be, were never included in anything.

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So I decided that what I wanted to write about

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was the skills women had as leaders, which was not

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a top There were books being written then about you know,

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women in the workplace and you know what they needed

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to do, and they you know, needed to leave their

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values at home and be like the guys.

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I mean, that was the theme.

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But I thought, you know, nobody's talking about the potential,

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the positives that women have. So I decided, you know,

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I was going to write a book about it. And

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the book was The Female Advantage, Women's Passe of Leadership,

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And it became kind of a sensation because there was

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nothing else. So, you know, as happened when with most

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people in their career, timing was extremely important, and I

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was able to start putting some ideas out there into

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the workplace in a way that would help shape it

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or be part of the conversation. Because this was you know,

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the late eighties, I got in on it.

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Well that, I mean, that was brilliant. You know what

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I thought you were going to Well two things I

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want to say. One, I met you at GE because

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he brought you in to help with the whole diversity

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thing and you know, helping women expand.

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But what I thought you.

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Were going to say is that, which maybe you did.

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But you know, a woman will come up with an

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idea saying at the meeting, everybody ignores it, and some

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man comes back with exactly the same thing, and all

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of a sudden it's like, oh, well that's really a

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great idea.

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Yeah, it's essentially what happened to me. But they got

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the idea. They thought it was a great idea a

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year later when it was proposed by a group of men.

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Right of course, you know, and then it sounded like

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really good to do, really good to do. So what

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are your sally, what what were your key transformation points

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in your career?

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Oh, that's interesting, Well that was obviously the worst one. Yes,

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And then I think I began to you know, I

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started getting invitations from companies come, you know, ge, you know,

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wonderful companies come in.

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Work with our group.

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You have a program talk about, you know, what women

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can do to improve their leadership style and make their

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voices heard.

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But I felt like I was a writer.

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I wasn't a speaker, I wasn't an expert, and I

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would qualify that. I mean, people would call on say,

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I'm not an expert. I've just wrote a book. And

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I had this picture of myself as just a writer

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for a wow time.

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Yeah, and then we know you can give speeches.

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You've done ted talks, We know that everything I've done, everything,

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I've done thousands and thousands of programs all over the

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orright all over the world for six countries I think

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I counted.

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And so that was.

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Really hard for me to sort of accept that mantle

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of being an expert because I was always disclaiming it,

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this is such a female behavior.

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Right, it is, you're right.

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And once I accepted that, and once I learned to

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you know, people say, oh, you've had so much influence.

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I wouldn't say, oh, I just wrote a book or

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a couple of books, because I've written now nine.

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But I was going to say more than a couple

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of books, Sally, there's a few out there, Yes there are.

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And it you know, that was a big transformation for

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me because it meant sort of accepting and looking at

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what I had contributed and what I could contribute. And

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that's how I always look at things in the last say,

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twenty years, is through a lens of contribution.

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Yeah, very very nice. Well you were wonderful.

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You and I were just in we were in DC,

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yeah together and Fiona. Fiona's been on the show and

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your talk was so great. It was really great being

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part of that panel. I just you know, I said

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to myself as I listened to said, well, you know,

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I've no always own when I love Sally Helsey. You

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always known why. So how did you run into Marshall?

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Marshall Goldsmith, who was really influential in my career. I

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in nineteen ninety five, when I published the book The

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Web of Inclusion, I was invited out to San Diego

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to that wonderful Hotel del Coronado to don a leadership

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conference for the Peter Drucker Foundation as.

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A nice, very nice yeah.

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So I was the lunchtime speaker. Francis Hesselbeinin invited me

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out and Marshall was there and he was doing a

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workshop and we met and we just kind of hit

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it off, and he had a party that evening for

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people because he lived in the area. And I went

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and we we all piled at a bus and went

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out to where he lived, and.

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Which was not shabby. No, no, no, it wasn't sabby.

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It was it was pretty fat. And I talked to

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him a lot.

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We had a good time, and about three months later

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he called me at home out of the blue and said,

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you know, Sally, I'm putting together a group of people

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in the leadership world to get together in San Diego.

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Hopefully it will happen every year. In January gave me

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the date, He said, would you be available, would you

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come out and it was just a casual gathering of colleagues,

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and he said something that really hit me. He said,

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you know, what we do is really fun, it's exciting,

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it's stimulating, but it's also very lonely because we travel

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around the world.

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We do a program and then we leave. And such

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a good point.

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Yeah, and we don't have a real group of colleagues,

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he said, And I think that's what I'm trying to start.

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So that spoke to me a lot, because i' was

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feeling that, you know, at a life, I had my

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friends in New York, but I just my life was different.

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So I went out and it was a very impressive

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group of people. Some of the people at that time

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who were most influential in the field, Jim Kusis and Bridges,

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et cetera, wondering I love both of them, Oh I know,

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I know, fantastic, fantastic people. And then Bill later was

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working with his wife, Susan Bridges, and she joined, so

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we had it was a very intimate group. We decided

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a couple of years in that we were not going

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to expand because it evolved as kind of friendship support group,

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and through through being part of that, it was really

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I don't know. It gave me a sense of belonging

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and professional, you know, connections that I had that had

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been missing, even though I know my career was going

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well and I was very pleased with it, so that

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was important. But I had this idea, this goes to

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how women rights about me to talk about Yeah, yes, oh.

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Yeah, I would love to hear. That was actually going

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to be my next question. But I just want to

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make a comment. You know, Marshall has Marshall Goldsmith for

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any you know, look him up for anybody who's watching

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the show right now. But he has been a real

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career launcher for a lot of people. In ninety five,

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I was working for GE, but he really helped me

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to that whole you know, career expansion on my part,

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and he's done that with you and so many other people.

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But go ahead with the I didn't mean no, that's fun.

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I know, and that is true. We take him tribute

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for that.

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So he brought out this book in twenty ten called

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What Got You Here, Won't Get You There, huge national bestseller,

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and it was a factus book about you know, how

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people's strengths also undermine them in their career. Right, I

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thought The book was wonderful, but I did think that

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it seemed pretty male centric. Is that a lot of

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the things that got in people's ways, like, you know,

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they never apologize, or they you know, are constantly bragging

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about what they did, et cetera, et cetera. I thought, well,

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this is not what gets in women's ways. You know.

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I knew that I'd been working in the field of

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women's leadership by that time for twenty five years, and

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so I wanted to collaborate with Marshall and what I

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thought would be a book that took that theme but

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did it specifically with women. You know, what are the

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habits that hold women back from really reaching their full potential?

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And I felt like that, yeah, And I felt like

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I sort of had a good sense of it because

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I've been on so many panels and this was really global.

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So I wanted to ask Marshall if he wanted to collaborate,

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but it took me. It took me two years to

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work up my courage to ask him if he wanted

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to collaborate.

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That's such a woman's thing, isn't it. It's such a

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woman's thing. And he said yes immediately. I'm sure, of course.

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He did.

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But what was funny is I felt like what he'd

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think was, Oh, she wants to collaborate with me because

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she knows we can get a huge advance that you

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know that it'll boost the size of her advance, or

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she wants to collaborate with me because I have you know,

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a million and a half LinkedIn followers, so kind of

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that he would see me as someone trying to glom

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on to him. But when I suggested it, he said,

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that's a great idea. In fact, I've had women who've

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mentioned that, and I have more and more women that

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with you would give me, really would give me much

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So I love Yeah. So he thought of it completely.

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Differently than I anticipated he would be thinking of it.

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were a couple you know, contractual roadblocks, but we finally

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pulled that together, and you know, we had clear definition lines.

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I was going to write the book and you know

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we know that, Sally.

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and he suggestions, which were always good. And then but

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he was going to be instrumental in promoting it, which

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is not my strength and not really anything I love.

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sold that book in twenty six languages, which is incredible.

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et cetera. So it's been extremely rewarding and it just

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resonates with people in a way that I'd never had

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a book resonate.

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that really hold women back?

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what they need to think about.

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What words would you give to men? So we'll talk

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about that after.

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But what are the things that hold with reluctance to

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claim your achievements, expecting others to spontaneously notice and value

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your contributions.

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That's a kind of bedrock one.

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Overvaluing expertise, feeling if I just become the best person

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at my job, well, of course.

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You know, my career will will increase.

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Perfectionism, the disease to please, oh, disease to please big one,

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it's a big one. Their communication habits are problematic too,

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you know, in terms of you know, failing to communicate

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what you've done or letting other people kind of dig

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it out. So all these kinds of things are really

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really important. Not investing enough in building and also leveraging relationships,

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establishing these sort of you know, it's not a quid

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pro quo, but it's more like, let's help each other,

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let's help each other become more successful. Guys do that

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almost instinctively and women, and I feel like I can

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speak about it partly because I have almost all these things.

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he'll think I'm trying to glom on, and he saw

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it as a big win win. So that kind of

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you know, engaging other people to really boost you. You know,

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in this room, I don't seem to get a lot

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of support. If I say something that you think is

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really you know, helpful, would you just acknowledge it? Because

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I need that support in the room. That kind of thing,

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just like even.

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I mean, say, if you're a woman saying something like that, yes.

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Exactly, saying that and then building those alliances and then

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looking for opportunities to do that for other people too,

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instead of you know, thinking, well, a relationship is a

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very private thing or I don't want I want people

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to know that I value them as friends and not

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just helping me advance in my career that kind of thing.

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information when you're you know, speaking to people, that is

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very I don't know, it just it hit and it resonated,

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and I think it was because it was drawn on

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the global experience. One of the things I I that

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kept experiencing is, you know, you go to Japan, they say, well,

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we think we thought only Japanese women had these habits

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or you know, we thought this these habits were just

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you know women you know in Islamic countries, right, Yeah,

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probably more than other. I mean, it's a it's a

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it's a it's a cultural thing.

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and things like that. So it's it's very you know,

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it's very deep. But what's what's interesting is these are

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universal and they resonate, but they play out differently in

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different cultures.

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Yes, absolutely, and that's just been a source of fascination

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to me.

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So this has been a great thing, and I do

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feel like I have made a contribution here that is

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pretty remarkable.

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But in terms of men, yeah, let's talk about that

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and take to this book. So it really was I mean,

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you know, men, they'll they'll.

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my wife, I bought this for my daughter, I bought

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this for my life.

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But then I would start to get notes from men.

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Two things that surprised me. Number one was I heard

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from a lot of men. You know I have these

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habits too.

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They may play out me differently, but you know I

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I don't like to talk about my achievements. I want

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people to notice them. I heard a lot of that

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in a way that surprised me. I remember being with

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a really high level guy at Google who was the

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sort of point person on a small conference I was

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doing of women in AI who are like all think.

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Have three PhDs.

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said to me, you know, this disease to please this

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is really something that I have.

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Really, so that was fascinating. That goes with their personality

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type too. I mean, there's a connection and men.

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Have the same diversity of personality types as women have.

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thing is the extent to which men said, this really

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helps me understand why. For example, you know, men will

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complain that they try to give woman a woman a job,

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you know, a job, transfer a better job, give them,

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you know, a leadership position. They'll say, I'm not ready yet.

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I still need to master this job. And they're like,

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what is going on with her? Is there something? Is

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she pregnant? Why would she do this? Well, that's the

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first thing that comes to their mind. Yeah, exactly.

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You know, unless you're past a certain age, then they're

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thinking something else, well, sick. But they said it really

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helped them understand that sort of reluctance that women have

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and to know better how to deal with it. I

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remember this one guy who just said, you know, that's

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the wrong answer.

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You know it really is.

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Yes, this is an opportunity of a lifetime. You may

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not feel ready for it, but I know you're ready

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for it. I see that in you. You have the capability.

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So take the opportunity and run.

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Run, take it and run, just do it. I'll be there.

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I've got your back.

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helpful thing that a number of men said that they

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learned from this. They said, you know this is this

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changed my behavior is that's fabulous.

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Yeah, yeah, so it's been it.

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You don't you know, you write books, you you know

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they're successful or they aren't. I've had both experiences. But

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when you really feel, you really hear from people, this

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changed how I do things. That's it's priceless.

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It's a great value.

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You really know, you had a huge amount of impact there.

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So so what got you to.

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Rising Together? What? What? Because that's your latest book. Yeah,

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Rising Together.

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I it was partly so many men. What I heard

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from men was particularly men who felt outside the main

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the leadership mainstream, you know, who were black or Hispanic

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working in this environment, or who were you know, an

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Australian working in a Japanese culture.

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Whatever. That was. Oh that's tough.

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You know, Japanese are I mean, Australians are very much

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in die diaspora in the South and East Asia. So

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it I thought, you know, we we have to look

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at ways in which people can feel to some degree

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marginalized in their career in terms of being recognized. We

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need to focus on how they can claim recognition. But

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we also need to focus on how do you build

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a culture in which people who are from diverse backgrounds.

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And this is a global phenomenon the US not absolutely

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right global. You have people of all walks of life,

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of life and color and all sh and gender and

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all of it. You have it everywhere in the globe.

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So we really need to understand how to build cultures

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that accommodate people who are diverse. And people are also

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diverse in terms of their mindset in terms of their

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expectations and what they want out of a career and

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their work ethic is and all these things. So that's

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what I was looking at, and I was trying to see,

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you know, how that shapes the culture to be extremely rich,

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how it attracts the absolute talent because you're drawing from

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a really the broadest possible pool. And then you know

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what kinds of behaviors I'm going to look at it

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in terms of behavior.

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So what what are the top behaviors?

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Well, I think that the top behavior is being really

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looking for opportunities for recognition, for public recognition for including people,

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for asking what are their ideas and then talking about

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not dismissing, but just considering, talking about thinking about it,

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including people in. I mean, this is these things are

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so simple and so basic, including hard, very hard thinking.

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About when you're going to have a meeting.

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Okay, we're going to have the first year and this

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you know, how people structure a meeting.

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Who's involved?

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Think broadly, Okay, who might be able to benefit from

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this meeting, even just seeing what's going on in the

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meeting so they have a better understanding of what this, say,

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product roll out it's going to look like, you know how.

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I mean when I talk to very junior people, especially

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people who are in an admin in companies, they often

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don't even know what the company does, but.

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They That's kind of shocking, isn't it.

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It's shocking because there's no opportunity to find out. They're

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just you know, they're really in a narrow Niche give

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them some information, let them see how the company runs,

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because there are a lot of very very talented people

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out there, and I think this goes with how we're

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thinking about things. I know, Delta Airlines has this program

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where they are they're there. They've taken sort of having

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a college degree off the off the list of requirements

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for ye requirements for people to go into real leadership positions,

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and it's you know, so they can come up through

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the ranks and they can use that talent and they

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can get you know, the qualifications they need, recognizing that

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the people who interact with the customer are the people

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who have the best understanding of the customer. And hey,

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they might be running customer service that could be a

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good idea, They may have an insight that might be

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very helpful. Exactly, so you know that the culture is changing.

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Part of this is that college has become so expensive

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that a lot of talented people are just kind of

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bypassing it or.

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Going only for a couple of years.

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You know, you don't want to graduate with one hundred

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and fifty thousand dollars in student debt. And that's very

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easy to do, very easy to do.

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Yeah, so, Sally, so tell me what is next for you?

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What's what's the next big passion that you have that

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you're going to direct your energy towards.

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Well, it will certainly remain in this field. I'm sure

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this is the most.

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Gratifying feel to be in and it's also fascinating because

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it changes so much. And this has been the last

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few years have been extremely challenging because companies have wanted

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to stay below the radar with any diversity aspects and

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rising together kind of got caught in that. You know,

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just as that book came out, companies were being pressured

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to a band diversity initiatives. In fact, in the last

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two years with the women's leadership work. You know, in

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March it's International Women's Month, that's always been my big month. Yeah,

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and I've had two out of say twenty five engagements

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in the United States.

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I've had plenty outside.

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You know, it's kind of fallen off in the US,

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So it's evolved.

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You are, you are saying that people are really corporations

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are really listening to the message that diversity and inclusion

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is really not important or whatever, and they're going under

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the radar and they're acting on that.

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They're acting on it. They haven't bought into it. That's

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what I believe. Interest that they recognize it. They have

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to hire people. They're looking for talented people, and they

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want to develop people, and they don't want a bad

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00:28:21.079 --> 00:28:23.559
reputation among people coming in, and they look at what

484
00:28:23.680 --> 00:28:27.759
the population looks like of students coming in, how diverse

485
00:28:27.799 --> 00:28:31.599
it is. So they understand it, they get it. But

486
00:28:31.680 --> 00:28:36.400
they're trying to fly under the radar in this particular

487
00:28:36.640 --> 00:28:41.400
period by not having any big conferences, etc. Making any

488
00:28:41.400 --> 00:28:45.920
big statements and they're trying to fly under the radar

489
00:28:45.960 --> 00:28:48.440
and just wait till this period passes.

490
00:28:48.599 --> 00:28:51.359
Essentially, Sally, that was beautifully said.

491
00:28:51.680 --> 00:28:57.920
That was very tactically said, I mean tech tactfully said, well,

492
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it's what I see.

493
00:28:58.960 --> 00:29:02.119
And yeah, you know, they have a different perception than

494
00:29:02.319 --> 00:29:06.599
the people who are, you know, doing this anti DEI thing.

495
00:29:07.400 --> 00:29:09.799
And you know, one of the things I realized, a

496
00:29:09.799 --> 00:29:13.400
lot of the noisiest people on the anti DEI thing,

497
00:29:13.920 --> 00:29:15.200
you know, run these hedge funds.

498
00:29:15.200 --> 00:29:16.960
They've going to hire about six people.

499
00:29:17.279 --> 00:29:20.720
It's not like ge, it's not like you a big company,

500
00:29:20.799 --> 00:29:22.480
it's not like Delta et cetera.

501
00:29:22.960 --> 00:29:27.160
And so they don't even you know, need to.

502
00:29:27.079 --> 00:29:30.160
Think about it, or they don't want to think about it.

503
00:29:30.160 --> 00:29:31.440
It's so it's really.

504
00:29:31.519 --> 00:29:37.039
To me, it's it's it's a it's not discouraging. It's

505
00:29:37.160 --> 00:29:41.839
just a time to be negotiated. And I am interested

506
00:29:42.160 --> 00:29:46.400
in being part of that we get through this, Yeah,

507
00:29:46.799 --> 00:29:47.880
how do we get through this?

508
00:29:48.039 --> 00:29:51.400
How do we transform through this? How do we transition?

509
00:29:52.000 --> 00:29:56.079
And it's a well transition, transition to something else, and

510
00:29:56.119 --> 00:29:58.480
we don't quite know what that is. And we hear

511
00:29:58.519 --> 00:30:00.680
all this about AI and it's going to change and

512
00:30:00.680 --> 00:30:02.240
nobody's going to have a job, and it's all going

513
00:30:02.319 --> 00:30:03.839
to be, you know, robots.

514
00:30:04.079 --> 00:30:06.400
But I've been hearing it's all going to be robots

515
00:30:06.440 --> 00:30:11.240
for forty years, you know, so exactly, I'm a little

516
00:30:11.279 --> 00:30:15.240
skeptical on a lot of that. Obviously, there are jobs

517
00:30:15.240 --> 00:30:19.240
that are being replaced, but I think that in a

518
00:30:19.279 --> 00:30:22.359
time of transition, we need to look for clues and

519
00:30:22.400 --> 00:30:26.480
we need to We're just going to need some help

520
00:30:26.559 --> 00:30:30.000
in being able to navigate the transition. The other thing

521
00:30:30.079 --> 00:30:35.079
is I find people immensely discouraged. Oh we've gone back,

522
00:30:35.480 --> 00:30:38.119
Oh we're going backward. We thought we made progress, but

523
00:30:38.200 --> 00:30:41.559
it was just ridiculous. What I have to bring at

524
00:30:41.559 --> 00:30:46.640
this point is I've been in this field, active and

525
00:30:47.200 --> 00:30:51.720
participant for forty years. Before that, I had a career

526
00:30:51.880 --> 00:30:53.920
for you know, fifteen years.

527
00:30:54.160 --> 00:30:56.319
Yes, so I've.

528
00:30:56.039 --> 00:30:59.160
Seen it all and I've heard over and over, oh

529
00:30:59.200 --> 00:31:02.519
this is over, this is no longer. Oh that's so nineties,

530
00:31:02.720 --> 00:31:07.640
you know when's leadership is so nineties whatever, and it's

531
00:31:07.799 --> 00:31:11.079
not really how it is. So I feel like I

532
00:31:11.119 --> 00:31:16.160
can bring this perspective in a way that will offer

533
00:31:16.759 --> 00:31:24.160
hope for and tactics for navigating through a challenging period

534
00:31:24.880 --> 00:31:28.559
that's going to have a lot of impact in terms

535
00:31:28.000 --> 00:31:31.440
of how how things unfold in the world.

536
00:31:31.799 --> 00:31:35.039
Yeah, it's really it's it's kind of a fascinating time.

537
00:31:35.400 --> 00:31:38.720
But you know, I think to your point, companies have

538
00:31:38.759 --> 00:31:43.599
to hire. Companies know that if they have a diverse workforce,

539
00:31:44.039 --> 00:31:48.599
they can tap into the customer better. Yes, and actually

540
00:31:48.640 --> 00:31:50.960
they tend to make more money. They tend to make

541
00:31:51.000 --> 00:31:51.960
more profit.

542
00:31:51.960 --> 00:31:56.359
Absolutely, and they draw from a wider pool of talent.

543
00:31:56.440 --> 00:31:59.160
They don't start off with a restricted pool of talent

544
00:32:00.160 --> 00:32:03.480
to hire. This kind of person will hire the best. Well,

545
00:32:03.599 --> 00:32:04.559
you know you've got.

546
00:32:04.880 --> 00:32:05.400
If you want to.

547
00:32:05.440 --> 00:32:08.480
Hire the best, you go to a big tool pool

548
00:32:08.519 --> 00:32:09.519
of twenty.

549
00:32:09.680 --> 00:32:10.160
Is it there?

550
00:32:10.720 --> 00:32:14.920
Yeah, it is, it is, well, Sally. So, So what

551
00:32:15.440 --> 00:32:18.160
parting last word do you want to say to people?

552
00:32:18.680 --> 00:32:19.759
Keep hope in your heart.

553
00:32:20.440 --> 00:32:24.400
Oh, I love that the gains that we have made

554
00:32:24.599 --> 00:32:29.359
in terms of how of who matters in the workplace

555
00:32:29.640 --> 00:32:34.599
in our communities will not be erased. They it goes

556
00:32:34.680 --> 00:32:39.319
in waves, and having some perspective about that and keeping

557
00:32:39.359 --> 00:32:42.039
hope in your heart is what what I think is

558
00:32:42.119 --> 00:32:43.640
most important.

559
00:32:44.039 --> 00:32:46.839
I love that. That is absolutely beautiful. And how do

560
00:32:46.880 --> 00:32:49.440
people get a hold of you? Because I know people

561
00:32:49.480 --> 00:32:50.680
are going to want to get a hold of you.

562
00:32:50.720 --> 00:32:52.400
They always do. Thank you.

563
00:32:52.960 --> 00:32:56.680
Yes, I'm easy to get hold of. My website, Sally

564
00:32:56.759 --> 00:33:00.720
Heelgison dot com has a contact button so you can

565
00:33:01.799 --> 00:33:04.400
email me. I'm in a very quiet period right now

566
00:33:04.440 --> 00:33:06.559
where I'm rethinking my own transition.

567
00:33:06.599 --> 00:33:07.839
I love that great.

568
00:33:07.880 --> 00:33:11.839
So I'm not particularly on social media and trying to

569
00:33:11.960 --> 00:33:14.559
email me through LinkedIn is a terrible idea because I

570
00:33:14.599 --> 00:33:18.079
guess so much. But just you know, if you want

571
00:33:18.119 --> 00:33:20.440
to get in touch with me, press the button contact

572
00:33:20.480 --> 00:33:23.559
Sally Elguson and I'll go right to my email and

573
00:33:23.640 --> 00:33:25.240
I will respond, well.

574
00:33:25.359 --> 00:33:29.200
Excellent, very very good. So I can't thank you enough, Sally.

575
00:33:29.240 --> 00:33:32.359
And it's just been since I've met you, it's just

576
00:33:32.359 --> 00:33:35.400
been a beautiful career to watch and to watch the

577
00:33:35.440 --> 00:33:40.400
impact that you've had on women and the workplace and

578
00:33:40.440 --> 00:33:44.319
women and men working together, which I think is absolutely brilliant.

579
00:33:44.720 --> 00:33:46.480
So have a wonderful.

580
00:33:46.559 --> 00:33:50.160
Rest of whatever part of the time zone you're in

581
00:33:50.759 --> 00:33:52.839
and we will talk again for sure.

582
00:33:52.920 --> 00:33:56.240
Absolutely. Thank you Sally so much. Thank you Linda. It's

583
00:33:56.240 --> 00:33:58.480
a pleasure to be with you appreciate it.

584
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So thank you so much for joining the show today,

585
00:34:02.680 --> 00:34:05.559
and I hope you will see us and tune in

586
00:34:06.400 --> 00:34:09.199
for the next one, which we'll be coming up very shortly.

587
00:34:09.679 --> 00:34:11.719
So thank you all for joining the show.